Browsing Tag: oregon coast

    Depoe Bay, Oregon
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    There’s Something About the Oregon Coast

    April 22, 2026

    Cari and I fell in love with the Oregon coast this weekend. Our first two visits (2021 and 2025) were great, but something just seemed different or better this time. It felt like a home away from home. From the minute we saw the beach and water to the minute we left, the two of us were non-stop smiles and happiness.

    In all three visits, we’ve stayed in Pacific City — cool little town. We did an Airbnb the first time, then stayed at Headlands Lodge the past two times. It’s a really cool, kinda swanky spot right on the beach. The staff, food, and everything has been great both times. We love it.

    This trip, we made our first visit to Depoe Bay, which is just OMG beautiful. We had lunch there one day at a spot right on the water, then walked around a bit and poked our heads inside a couple little shops. It was a lovely day. We also stopped at a place nearby called Boiler Bay, and did some whale watching from the shoreline.

    We’re both ready to go back like…tomorrow! But we’re now also thinking the Oregon Coast is tops on our list of retirement places. I don’t know what happened on this visit, but something clicked. We just love it.

    sunset on the Oregon Coast
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    Baby steps…in the ocean

    June 6, 2025

    I’ve swum in pools twice since my accident, and that was fine both times. But I had a feeling that getting back in the ocean would be a different story.

    On our first day at the Oregon coast last week, Cari and I went down to the beach so I could get in the ocean for the first time. It was about 60 degrees outside, the water was cold AF, and I didn’t even bring a bathing suit. So the plan was only to go about ankle or knee-deep and that’s what I did.

    It was fine and went according to plan, until I turned around and saw her behind me and all the memories of the accident came flooding back. I felt things I haven’t felt since that day. I cried. (Of course I cried.) I got angry — why me? Why did I have to go through all this?? We had a good little talk. I think I was able to let go of a lot of stuff.

    Best of all…the next day we got back in the water again and I had fun! We walked along the waterline, got up on some of the wet rocks nearby, took a bunch of pics and videos…stuff like that.

    Another baby step. Still don’t know if I’m ready to go back to Hawaii, but I’d go back to the Oregon coast tomorrow. Feels like progress. LFG 💪